|Posted by Kate on August 19, 2012 at 12:55 AM|
Don't get your panties in a bunch; I am no prude. I love to wear low-cut tops, and I love men. I also know that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", blah, blah, blah.
I think about most of the women I know, and I think they can be put into the caterogies of "Sexy" or "Cute". Being sexy is stringent, at least I think so; a women must show her large bust, must wear eye and lip makeup, must wear perfume. Being cute? That's much more personality. I have friends that I think most men don't find attractive. I think this is pathetic. Granted, the two that come to mind have very low self esteem.
We desperately need to change the concept of physical attractiveness in this country. I want to start revolution; It is easier to be cute than sexy. Being cute, you don't have to cover your face in crap you can't afford in this shitty economy. Cute flats, a sundress, any variation of the little makeup you want, done.
I think that if some women were to concentrate on just looking adorable--just cuddly, not like a little girl--that EVERY woman could be more attractive. Cute is much more humble and honest.
I am a huge hypocrite. I love the way I look in shorts and a low cut top. But as soon as I get an unwanted cat-call, I feel trashy. This also happens when I am fully covered up, but not as much.
I think most women would rather date a man who thought she looked sweet than hot. Hot can bring a guy to bed, but cute has the power. Cute is why he wants to come back, because she's smart, sweet, and modest. Hot just bursts then fizzles. Hot fades, cute lasts until old age. I'd rather be cute.